- carolgyurina
- Jan 5
- 2 min read
There is no wrong time to start lessons, but earlier in childhood is when children are learning language, and music is a language. If you want your children to have the language of music, make sure there is music in the home, singing, dancing and listening to great music.
Early childhood is a wonderful time to begin lessons, especially, if you have the time and energy to participate with your child. A pre-school child needs more than a 1/2 hour weekly lesson to learn music, so the methods that work for young children (and they work very well), require the parents to be at the lesson, learning along with their child, and to assist in the daily practice, so that from the very beginning, the young student develops good habits of proper posture and playing in tune. This does take a level of commitment on the parent's part that should be considered within the context of your family and work life.
Many families choose to wait until the public school lessons start in 3rd grade. Third grade is a good time to start studying music, however, the school lessons alone are likely not enough to help your child develop true musical abilities. Assuming that a 1/2 hour weekly group lesson is enough to teach the violin, is like assuming a child could learn to read with only 1/2 hour weekly instruction, and no at-home help. While the teachers in the public school are excellent, they simply do not have the time to give the level of instruction needed for a student to go beyond a very beginning level.
The other difficulty with learning only through school, is that unless the lessons are supplemented, most likely, your child will practice playing on their own with incorrect hand positions, and often out of tune. This practicing cements these poor habits, so that if your child later decides to take the instrument more seriously, they will likely need to spend a year or two, unlearning the habits they developed without private lessons. Once they learn to hold the instrument correctly with a relaxed and supportive posture, they begin to play in tune, with beautiful tone, and able to play more difficult pieces. It takes much patience, and by middle school it may be harder to find the time and the energy to relearn (though my students have shown me it is very possible). It is much better, if they simply have the level of guidance they need right from the start.
I strongly encourage parents to start their children either in pre-school or in early to middle elementary school, and to have them work with a trained teacher who has studied teaching using a known method, such as Suzuki. Adding in group music classes on top of private lessons is ideal, as music eventually is a social and group activity.
There are people who start in middle school, high school and as adults, who also learn well, so if you didn't start your child young, and they still want to learn, it is not too late!